Safer Sex

Sex is an important part of life. Whether you are a virgin contemplating your first time, or a more experienced person looking for a new partner, sex can be both exciting and a little nerve-wracking. Practicing safe sex means that you can more easily enjoy having sex with a new partner. You can feel confident in the knowledge that you're protecting your body and your health. You need to learn to stay safe when it comes to sexually transmitted infections or diseases (STIs or STDs), unwanted pregnancies, and other risky sexual behaviors. Remember, you need to take care of both your mental and physical health.

I guess you mean sex without risk of STD transmission or pregnancy. It's easy, then: Have a sex type that does not involve any risk of STD transmission or pregnancy. Manual sex can not make a pregnant person fall and the risk of catching something is tiny. So give yourself handjobs and experience it. Your biggest risk is probably the cold.

If you ask how to have a penis-in-vagina sex without risk of STD transmission or pregnancy - well, sorry, you're out of luck. When a penis goes in a vagina, there are risks. You can mitigate these risks with different strategies, but you can not reduce them to zero. That's why the term "safe sex" has fallen out of favor, and safer sex is now preferred. It's never safe, but you can make it safer.

Condoms are a popular strategy for safe sex because they are very effective in reducing the risk of sex and are cheap. Some people do not like to use them, of course, and they have to wonder if they do not like condoms so much that they are willing to take on the extra risk. They may use other strategies to prevent pregnancy, such as other forms of contraception; for STDs, they could discuss recent test results and hope that the tests were accurate and that their partner was honest.

I do not know why the marital status of the woman is relevant. Married women do not have a magic antiseptic vulva. The same strategies apply to married women and single women. Keep in mind: if she is not married to you, and she is actually married to someone with whom she has to lie to sleep with you, her loyalty may not be the best.