Relationship Guide For Men: How To Live Happy Life

But if it’s not about an established family, but just about the ongoing relationship, then this is completely different.

Have you been in this situation? You sit with friends in a bar, drink quietly to yourself, speak for life, and suddenly one of you rings a telephone, and you all hear:

- Hush hush! Yes sun? Oh sure. Yes, that's about it. How many loaves? More milk? Good of course.

And it’s okay, if your friend said it, and not you. And everyone in the company is: “Oh, everything is clear with him. Under the heel. " And he is leaving. Or you leave.

Do you want to be in the role of a hamster in a wheel? What you want? So be it. Oh no, don't you want? Right! Then read on.

Who is henpecked?

Once you read this, then the problem already exists. Or looms. Or it is noticeable by the example of friends whose fate you would not want to repeat.

So who is henpecked? One who does not decide anything in a relationship. Who is all just “Yes”, “Yes, Darling”, “Yes, of course, of course, yes, dear!”. And at the same time she doesn’t even try to otmazatsya from all her vagaries to go about her own business, but really after a second jumps from her place and runs to her. And there he’s still getting a bulldozer that he didn’t hammer a clove in some wall. Dude ... damn him with a nail, the main thing is that the diagnosis is already on the face. Even if you beat this damn nail with your forehead, you still work in the family as a woman.

- I hammered a nail!

- Well done. You can bring down.

Under the heel is when:

you either don’t take on male functions,

or you can’t cope with them,

or they don’t trust you at all.

You have ceased to take responsibility. Did she decide to buy a new washer at a 90% discount? So let herself deal with the repair, if it breaks in a week. What am I doing here? Did I need this washer? And the old one worked quite well. She did some garbage herself, and rake it all up, but I have a championship on TV here - I’ve been waiting a month!

Has there ever been a similar monologue in your head? Even two? How are two of your eggs that she now carries with her in a small, small box?

Henpecked do not like?

The main thing is to remember that you can never generalize.

There are women (girls / girls) - mothers to whom the man with the inner core didn’t give up. Why is she to her? He walks like a peacock, doesn’t obey orders, he does something when he wasn’t asked, you can find him on the rug under the door - it’s not clear where all the time. She at least does not like such behavior on the part of the peasant, but at the very least she simply offends.

Usually such a woman is firmly upright, self-confident and self-loving female. And the fact that the peasant whom she chose for herself is more active than furniture is no longer possible.

Yes, it is obvious that such a description is suitable, for example, to a lady from Rublevka, which seems to look like a satisfying slice - but only with such a lady you will turn out to be just a eunuch. Well, or the main eunuch - is that much better? You will walk on tiptoe, with slippers in your teeth, and you will be more likely to be fucked.

So we define such a mesalliance as a pathology.

Many women, on the contrary, want a man to be stronger. Remember, in school or college years, girls always stuck to high school students, high school students or graduates? Here. Yes, and Freud would have confirmed everything according to secret documents - but we will not talk about that.

This is evolutionarily determined - the female needs a strong support, a rock-man, on which she can calmly hang with her children, and this stone titan nehai carries them all forward, calmly crushing all obstacles around, like a web.