Отношения глазами мужчины

Why is that? Because if, in principle, you are not sorry, then at least you will not have such a surprised face at this crucial moment - why give her unnecessary pleasure this way. And if you just feel sorry and you want to change this, then now you have such an opportunity. And at the time of parting, this opportunity will be somewhat illusory.

But first, let's talk about fake partings.

Fake breakups and what to do with them

Among the diverse arsenal of female manipulations, there is also such as a fake parting or parting for fun. This is when she either makes a “scandal with leaving” or at least blackmails you with it. The goal in this case is not to part in real life, but to achieve something from you. Usually a global change in your behavior.

It is assumed that you immediately rush to return it, apologize, change, and so on. And you are likely to rush. It will break for a while for a while - and everything will return to square one. Such TUZ drama can be repeated over and over for the slightest reason, or serve as "heavy artillery" for extreme cases. But in any case, it is not assumed that you are really breaking up.

What to do with such a girl?

Listen, honestly - think about whether you need it. Dude, she's trying to manipulate you so desperately and ugly - do you think you'll really be happy together? But in any case - your business. If you want to continue the relationship - go ahead. And consider these “leaving, not leaving” a signal that you should pay attention to and somehow correct your actions.

How to understand that a girl wants to leave you for real?

At first. The alien soul is darkness, and the alien female soul is pitch darkness. There is not a single unambiguous symptom that would allow something in this soul to clarify. So do not grab the very first evidence of her cooling to you - and decide that everything is over. But if you check this list and understand that according to most of the signs there has been a negative trend lately, draw conclusions. And change something in yourself if you want to keep it.

No physical contact

We want to touch those we love. If the girl no longer seeks to touch you - pay attention. And pay even more attention if she not only does not touch you herself, but also reacts negatively to your touch.

The light in my eyes disappeared

She looks at you less, and if she looks, she looks with a dull look.

Avoidance of communication

Do you still remember how she needed to communicate with you more than you did with her - and you had to participate in these long telephone conversations. But now something has shifted, and she is already beginning to invent reasons to not communicate with you. Yes - also a symptom.

Discussion of plans for the future has disappeared

All these “how many children we will have”, “and where we will go next summer”, “and what color the curtains will be in our house”. If they were, and then disappeared - an alarming bell. Think for yourself - if she no longer wants to discuss the future with you, then she’s not sure that you will be in this future.

Change in the number of quarrels

That's right - a change. Because their number in anticipation of parting can both increase and decrease. It depends on how many there were and how the girl perceives them. That is, look not at a specific quantity, but rather at the dynamics of the quantity. The difference is due to two reasons in two different situations:

or she wants to swear, but there’s no point in sparing your feelings - and she puts all the dogs at you, recouping for all the lost emotions,

or she already doesn’t care what you think and how you squint there - you don’t exist for her anymore, so what's the point of cursing with something non-existent?

Something like that.

What to do next is up to you. You can restore the situation. You can hammer a bolt and find a new one. It so happens that the relationship has exhausted itself - all good things have already happened, and then some nonsense stretches.