Virtue Magazine (Africa)

A healthy communication is about constant communication of love; in deeds and in words, for more than just one particular day on the calendar. Committing to a life together is not what everyone thinks it is.

It's not waking up early every morning to make breakfast and eat together. It's not cuddling in bed together until both of you peacefully fall asleep. It's not a clean home and a homemade meal every day. It's definitely not about raising perfect kids in a perfect home, nor being the best makoti or best son in law; It's about the perfect imperfections, about what is inside not outside. It's all about making the best of every awkward situation and remembering why you are together in the first place. Love is walking away from a fight but moving towards your loved one, failing to fail and walking out in to the world wondering how possible it is to love and hate someone: then you realize LOVE surpasses all.