AseeksB: Personal Ads & Dating

AseeksB is a free, kink-friendly personal ads app for people who would rather say what they want than swipe. Post in your own words, then browse and reply to real, text-first personal ads from people near you. No swiping, no scoring, no games. Just real people saying what they are looking for.

It is the best of two worlds: the honesty and freedom of the old personal ads and classifieds, with the safety, control, and polish of a modern app.

Whether you are into casual dating, a long-term relationship, ENM, polyamory, or a kink-friendly connection, AseeksB is built for personals the way they used to work, only better.

A different kind of dating app

- Text-first: posts are words, not photo grids. Photos are optional

- No swiping: browse real personal ads and reply to the ones that fit

- Kink-friendly: choose to hide, include, or only see kink-friendly posts

- Open to everyone: singles, couples, queer, gay, bi, ENM, and poly friendly

- Local: find personal ads from people near you

Searching and messaging

- Search by category, gender, age, and distance, and hide traveling posters

- Kink-related roles: search across 90+ roles

- Couples' posts: choose to hide, include, or only see couples' posts

- Photos: choose to only see posts that have photos. Photos must be of the poster

- Hide posts and posters you are not interested in

- One initial message per post: people cannot message you again until you reply, so no pestering

- Transparency: searches show the number of posts returned

Posting

- Post for free, in your own words

- Audience control: choose who can see your post and who can message you. Restrict by gender, age, and location

- Roles: tag your post with up to 5 of 90+ roles that other users can search

- Real conversations: no one-word openers. Initial messages have a minimum length

AseeksB Assist

- Not sure how to start your post? Tell Assist a bit about yourself and it drafts a few options in your own words. Pick a direction, then polish it, adjust the tone, or expand it with a tap

- You stay in control: edit anything, keep what works, and you can always write every word yourself

- Full access comes with Supporter

All key features are free

Posting, browsing, choosing your audience, tagging roles, and messaging are all free. Supporter unlocks up to 7 active posts at once, the distance and max-distance filters, require-a-photo-to-message, Supporters-only browsing, Traveling Mode, advanced search, AseeksB Assist, and more.

Our values

- Mutual respect: we are post-swipe, and we are about quality, not quantity

- Transparency: we do not hide the number of results. Searches show the number of posts returned

- Accountability: we take your safety, privacy, and time seriously. We proactively review posts and make it easy to report anyone who does not follow our Guidelines

Please review our post, photo, and profile and messages guidelines:

https://www.aseeksb.com/postguidelines.html

https://www.aseeksb.com/photoguidelines.html

https://www.aseeksb.com/profileandmessageguidelines.html

AseeksB is free to download and use. Your personal data is securely stored. Please read our privacy policy and terms of service.