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Men and women have different basic characteristics. Likewise, when there is an increase in age, including when entering adulthood, where there is a striking difference between the personalities of men and women.

The research doctor, dr. Aisyah Dahlan, CHt., warned wives to be careful when their husbands enter the age of 40. Because, there are some personality changes that wives should be wary of. Anything?

"The 40-year-old man is in the world of work, it's good that he has a career. So I feel that I can buy everything with money. There are times when men think like that," he said in a video uploaded on YouTube Lovers dr Aisyah Dahlan, CHt., quoted by VIVA, Tuesday 7 September 2021.

Then, according to the woman who is also a preacher, she said, there are hormonal changes that also occur in men when they enter their 40s or 50s.

"Age 40 or 50 years and over, this man's testosterone hormone decreases, so he is more like a woman than a woman. That's why he always wants to be hugged, accompanied by his wife. His name is like a woman, so he always looks dapper compared to when he was 20, 25 or older. 30. It's a hormonal problem," he explained.

So according to Aisyah, wives should understand when their husbands reach the age of 40, because they will look more coquettish, especially in terms of appearance. Moreover, according to Aisah, in general, men are more established at that age.

"That's why we (wives) are trying to find out how to be with our husband more often, accompany him, more often we listen to his advice. Because men, when they are 40 years old and above, really want to give advice," he said.

Contrary to the husband, according to Aisyah, at that age the wife is actually having fun being active outside the home to socialize.

"Well, so one wants to be accompanied by (husband), the other wants to be independent (wife). It didn't meet and finally subconsciously, then there was the phenomenon of pelakor that was so rampant, he said.

"Start with these actors using a woman's way, her voice is spoiled, who feels she needs pity. Finally the man feels, 'My wife doesn't need me anymore, my wife is very independent, my wife is socializing a lot outside,' he doesn't need me,' it could hit the actor," he concluded.

According to Aisyah, this happens because men or husbands are in the hormonal phase and the environmental phase at that age. Therefore, Aisha gave a warning to the wives.