How To Get Your Ex Back

The breakup is always painful and what is more painful is the time after that. Every moment you miss your ex and almost everything reminds you of them. The good times spend together might let you think again and you may start looking for how to get your ex back!

You must remember that getting back your ex is not enough, you must learn how to keep them or else there is no value of getting them back. Thus, here are few tips that may seem helpful when you start looking for how to get your ex back.

Don’t contact your ex too often

In order to get back, your ex-most people keep messaging or calling them again and again. Do not do that as that will make them feel that you do not have anyone else to turn to and thus you still want them. They may not value your emotions. Even they too had been through a rough patch during the break up so if you keep calling them, again and again, they may stop taking your calls. Give time and do not try to contact soon.

Don’t spread negativity on social media

Again it is a common practice that after break up you start spreading negative thoughts on social media. Stop doing that! You may feel that others will understand your emotions but no one will actually. When they see those negative thoughts they will consider you as a negative person and may try to get away from you. Moreover, when your ex will see those posts they may also not like it. Thus, if you cannot show positivity be neutral.

Give space and time to yourself

It’s true that you love your ex and want them back in your life but that does not mean that you will sacrifice everything for them. If you do that now you will be sowing the seed for future problems. Rather let them enjoy their life as they want and you work on yourself. Try to do those things that you had been missing.

In the meantime when you stop contacts between you and you’re your ex after some time they too will start missing you. Let that happen. In the meantime, you think about the relationship again. Whether it was a burden on you or you actually loved it. What were the causes that made it head to a breakup? Do you really want your ex back as you love them unconditionally or is it just because you are missing them? Answer these questions honestly and you can be firm about the decision you take.

Be a person that your ex cannot resist

During the period when you are not in contact with your ex-start changing yourself. Do something to be proud of yourself. Your ex may try to contact you in between. Keep the relation in between ‘hi’ and ‘hello.’

After sometime when you think that there are positive changes in you and your ex is also eager to be in contact with you talk over the relationship with them. Just do not jump in the relationship again as you cannot live, be firm that this time you both will live together for each other.