iDontity

Welcome to iDontity! We are so excited to have you connect with our community of donor families!

The iDontity app allows donor children, donor children’s parents and donors to identify if they are in the proximity of another genetic half. The app can be used for general awareness when out and about in the world making connections, or it can be used to spark a conversation between you and another person with your iDontity.

The app is built off of the information you provide so be honest! If you are a donor, be sure to disclose all of your donor IDs to allow connection between donor siblings that would otherwise not know they are connected. It is up to all of you to maintain the integrity of the information in this app. If you do, we can all be of benefit! Check back often as new connections may be added daily!

Thank you for joining our effort to create more connection in this world!

Jami Hamilton, Founder of iDontity

About Jami:

I am a mom of two donor produced, amazing and rowdy little boys. Like most parents, I want life for them to be as easy and carefree as possible. I began to contemplate the challenges they would face as they became adults, creating connections outside of the ones I’ve built for them, eventually seeking more romantic connections. The questions in my mind took off like wildfire!

How would they recognize whether or not they had just met their half sibling?

Having a genetic link, would they be more likely to establish an instant connection with this person? What if they mistook that connection for romantic love?

What if “something” happened between them and their half-sibling and they didn’t know?

The repercussions could be catastrophic!

I started talking about the concept more and more seeking to find a solution to this looming societal issue. During dinner one night with friends, the seeds of this app were planted and stuck with me until iDontity was formed. This app allows donor children, donor children’s parents and donors to form connections and create awareness of existence. Our society suffers from so much disconnect. My hope is that this app will add a little more connection, peace, and love in this crazy world.