Questions à se poser en couple

Have you ever wondered what your partner's long-term relationship goals might be? Have you wondered if they are having a good time in bed? Or have you just wondered what's going on in their head? If you answered yes, then you need this list of questions for couples to help you get on the same page.

Whether you're asking fun questions on a date or going into the details of the future, it's incredibly important for couples to have conversations both big and small, says Valeria West, MHC-LP, psychotherapist and owner of Intuitive Healing Psychotherapy Practice. "There can be powerful stories that arise from even a few questions that seem silly or inconsequential," she tells Bustle. "When couples get to know their partner's inner world in a meaningful and profound way, it allows them to feel more connected.

When you've been with your partner for a while, it's easy to assume you know everything there is to know about them. After all, you've spent countless nights recounting your dreams, your fears, your childhood memories, your embarrassing moments, your favorite sandwich toppings, and more. Plus, you've created amazing memories and been side by side through all the ups and downs. You understand each other.

These conversation starters will help you find out more about their interests and whatever is currently occupying their mental realm.

It's healthy to learn more about the stories that shaped your partner's worldview and yes, that includes exes. Their ex-partners are an important part of their story and tell their relationship patterns. If you haven't had time to dive into their past, there's no better time than the present.